...because one is single, two is a couple, and three is a crowd...

Saturday, November 27, 2010

The Road to Granola, part 2


The next part of my move to more natural living is baking our own bread. It's quite an undertaking if you make it by hand all the time, so I've been using a bread machine we got as a wedding gift. A few weeks ago Coen took a piece of store bought bread out of the bag and ate it plain. He held it up for me to take a bite and I did. As I ate it I could literally taste the preservatives and chemicals. Covered in PB&J or tuna, it's not so bad but by itself is just nasty. It gave me the kick I needed to start baking our own! It is so yummy and fresh!! There is just nothing like homemade bread.

The only problem now is that I just watched a documentary on bioengineered crops and now I need to find wheat flour (we don't have a grinder) that hasn't been tampered with! That's my next step.

Thanksgiving 2010


This year John and I decided to have our very own family dinner, just the 4 of us. I wanted leftover turkey to put into soups and casseroles to freeze. So I bought my first turkey, a 19 pound Butterball.

The two nights prior to Thanksgiving I lay in bed, tossing and turning, in and out of sleep, having nightmares about having a dry turkey. To make it worse my friend had told me about wild turkeys that lived in a field behind her house and in my dreams I heard turkeys squawking as they were chased and bagged by their captors.

I've decide roasting a turkey is much like having a baby. You labor for a really long time, anxiously awaiting the day/hour your baby/turkey will be done. For some, there is a built in belly button/thermometer to tell you when it's done. You wonder if it will be cute/tasty, if it will look/taste like mom or dad/Marshall's or Bradley's turkey. What will the temperament/juiciness be like? Will it be a crier/dry? Will it be a good sleeper/tender?

Well, my nightmares were for naught because it was the BEST DAMN TURKEY either of us had ever tasted. No joke. So to tie up the baby analogy: We do turkeys like we do babies, adorable/juicy and flavorful.

Aside from the turkey, we made green bean casserole, rolls, mashed potatoes, stuffing, cranberry fluff, pumpkin pie, banana cream pie, and whipped cream. It was quite the production. It was so rewarding to finally sit down and eat the fruits of our labors. It was a lot of fun, too! I was so excited to cut into it and taste it that I forgot all about taking a picture of the beauty. Oh well. I did start a new tradition - eat pie first. I just couldn't wait all day for the bird to cook!

Just as my tryptophan coma was setting in my friends texted me to come out shopping with them that night. Toys R Us was our first stop where we thought we'd just run in, grab 3 things, and meet up with our group at the mall in an hour. Well, we waited outside in 24 degree weather for 2 hours, just to get in the door, then another 40 minutes in the checkout line. It was crazy! But fun. Then at the mall I found a really cute hat, so that was worth it. I can now say I've had my first Thanksgiving Day/Black Friday shopping experience since we didn't get home until 3am.

"School" Pictures

Aside from their baby pictures, I've been REALLY bad about taking yearly "professional" photos of the boys. In addition to pictures to mark their 2nd and 6th birthdays, I also wanted to get a "school" picture of Marshall for the year.

I asked around about neat places to go do pictures and while we were on our way to one we came across a beautiful hay field that happened to have a gate open. We stopped to try it out and didn't even make it to our destination, we loved it so much.

So, without further ado, here they are...
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Monday, November 15, 2010

The Road to Granola

After reading some articles, and books, and watching some documentaries about how our food and household products ARE KILLING US, I decided to go granola and start making more of our stuff from scratch. One thing I've been wanting to do for awhile now was make our own laundry detergent. It is so much cheaper than store bought and you can have a TON of it on hand for when you run out, or can't afford it, don't feel like looking up a deal and clipping a coupon, or for your 1 year emergency supply. It's hard to stock up on regular detergent, but this you could have a years worth really easily and make it as you need it. All you need are 3 simple ingredients. We're talking back to basics here.


First, you grate a bar of Zote laundry bar soap. Note: Make sure your kids know this is SOAP, not cheese. Then put it up out of reach until you're ready to use it.
Next you melt the soap in a quart of water (after looking up how many cups are in a quart). ((blushes))
Then pour that into a 5 gallon bucket and add some more water and the Borax and soda. I forgot the exact measurements but I think it's a cup of each.


Let it sit over night, then stir really well. Then I used a funnel and put it in an old, rinsed out detergent bottle. I scented it with some Orange Bliss doTerra oil, then shook it up!


I've been using this for about a month now and I'm pleased! It gets the clothes clean and doesn't break the bank. Tonight I had to refill my container for the first time and was glad not to have to run to the store - there was more in my 5 gallon bucket.

The Borax, Soda, and Zote cost about $7. The recipe calls for 1 whole bar of Zote, so that's gone, but the Borax and Soda I still have more of. Plus, they are also used in a lot of around the house cleaning supplies. These things are easy to store and cheap to buy, so I'm going to stock up.

ALSO, I've sworn off cold cereal. John wanted to shoot me and there have been a few mornings I wanted to shoot myself for this decision, but it's been a good one. We've had healthier breakfasts using whole grains (oatmeal, cracked wheat), egg dishes, fruit and cottage cheese, and pancakes from scratch. I notice the kids stay fuller longer and aren't clamoring for snacks 45 minutes later. This has also helped our grocery budget because not only are we not having to buy cereal, but we've gone from 3 gallons of milk a week to only 2. Milk is about $3.50 here so that's a noticeable difference.

I could go off on how unnutritious cereal is but I'll just give you the link to the article. My guess is after you read it you'll feel the same way and cut out cereal yourself. So don't read it if you're not willing to go without cereal!

Also, for the first time in my life and I really never thought I'd say this....I want to live in the country and own land! I want to have animals and a huge garden and fruit trees and all that! It's totally possible here in MO without living hours away from civilization. My new goal for someday when we buy a house is to have plenty of acreage to do this! I want chickens so we can have our own fresh eggs, and possibly a milking cow.

If we could afford it I would buy all organic. I want to try slowly switching over on the important stuff like milk, meat, and the top 13 produce items you should buy organic. The chemicals and preservatives they put in our food is killing us and ruining our bodies! In my opinion the government should be doing something about this AND FAST!!!

I'm not perfect and we still eat processed foods and stuff, but I'm slowly trying to incorporate more whole foods one thing at a time. Baby steps.

I was going to post about the zoo and a pumpkin patch because I'm really behind on posting, but I saw these pictures so you got this instead. Oh well.

Wednesday, November 10, 2010

One Year Ago

Today marks the anniversary of my blog post that had my visiting teacher rushing over to offer help and my sweet Grandma Rose bringing in dinner. I just wanted to take the time to record how I'm doing...one year later. We'll call it "The State of Nicole Address." I also want to thank everyone for their support and love during that time. I read the comments from the post over and over, they helped more than you know.

After talking to a friend on facebook, I found out shortly after I wrote my post last year that weaning from breastfeeding can often send your hormones into chaos and mayhem, causing a temporary depression. That coupled with the fact that I was just getting over swine flu it's no wonder I was out of sorts. Not to mention 2009 had to be the worst year of my life. Seriously.Worst.Year.Ever.

While life isn't a bed of roses one year later, it certainly has improved some. I am in a better place physically, mentally, emotionally, and geographically. I think the move to Kansas City was the best decision John and I have made in our 8 years together. Moving here 6 months ago (another anniversary today) was a huge turning point for us as a family and as individuals.

I still have feelings of inadequacy and guilt creep up on me more than I'd like, but I've learned to handle them better. Most of the time I'm able to look back on how far we've come as a family in the last 6 months and know that there is a bright future ahead. Every time I feel those things haunting me, I try to change in one small way, to get one step closer to the mom I want to be for my kids.

My head is still spinning in 5 different directions. I counted them last night as I lay tossing and turning. Wanna know what they are? Good, because I'm going to tell you: homeschool curriculum, what to get the boys for Christmas, the need to lose weight, finances, and trying to get pregnant. As I lay in bed with the wheels of my brain turning it felt like they were going to collide and that I would end up getting the boys pink girly baby things for Christmas presents, go on the hcg diet just to have the pregnancy hormones coursing through me, but lose weight too, and accidentally plan a unit on fertility for homeschool. Oy!

I guess my point is, some things never change, but at least I'm handling it all okay. Life is good, we're lucky to be where we are and I'm thankful for the opportunity to come out here. It's been a fresh start in so many ways.

Tuesday, November 2, 2010

Things I love about Fall...or...Trying to find the silver lining

1. Pretty colors
2. My favorite pink sweatpants, not to be confused with my second, third, and fourth favorite pink sweatpants (pink the color, not the VS brand)
3. Lounging around in oversized aka John's sweatshirts
4. My warm fuzzy socks from my bestie, Melissa
5. It's been so nice out, we've had lots of park days!
6. I can actually straighten my hair and have it stay straight!!
7. My boys' birthdays!
8. The comforting white noise sound of the heater in the middle of the night
9. Yummy pumpkin recipes, mmm....
10. The memories of the sun warming my face are still fresh and I haven't begun to miss the summer heat...yet.